Fragments of Evolving Manhood: Do You Like Your Body 3 (Preliminary Notes On the Expendability of the Foreskin)

June 26th, 2010 § 4 comments

In 1834, Sylvester Gra­ham — inven­tor of the cracker that con­tin­ues to bear his name — pub­lished a book called A Lec­ture to Young Men, in which he warned that mas­tur­ba­tion would trans­form a boy who prac­ticed it reg­u­larly into:

a wretched trans­gres­sor [who] sinks into a mis­er­able fatu­ity, and finally becomes a con­firmed and degraded idiot, whose deeply sunken and vacant, glossy eye, and livid shriv­elled [sic] coun­te­nance, and ulcer­ous, tooth­less gums, and fetid breath, and fee­ble bro­ken voice, and ema­ci­ated and dwarfish and crooked body, and almost hair­less head — cov­ered per­haps with sup­pu­rat­ing blis­ters and run­ning sores — denote a pre­ma­ture old age, a blighted body — and a ruined soul! (Quoted in Kimmel)

Gra­ham, who was one of the most pop­u­lar and suc­cess­ful of the non-medical writ­ers on this sub­ject, believed the male body was sim­ply not equipped to han­dle “the con­vul­sive parox­ysms attend­ing vene­real indulgence” — read: ejac­u­la­tion — and so even mar­ried men, whose sex­ual activ­ity with their wives was cer­tainly beyond the moral reproach usu­ally asso­ci­ated with mas­tur­ba­tion, had to be very care­ful not to overindulge – which for Gra­ham meant more than once a month. Oth­er­wise, they risked

Lan­guor, las­si­tude, mus­cu­lar relax­ation, gen­eral debil­ity and heav­i­ness, depres­sion of spir­its, loss of appetite, indi­ges­tion, faint­ness and sink­ing at the pit of the stom­ach, increased sus­cep­ti­bil­i­ties of the skin and lungs to all the atmos­pheric changes, fee­ble­ness of cir­cu­la­tion, chill­i­ness, head-ache, melan­choly, hypochon­dria, hys­ter­ics, fee­ble­ness of all the senses, impaired vision, loss of sight, weak­ness of the lungs, ner­vous cough, pul­monary con­sump­tion, dis­or­ders of the liver and kid­neys, uri­nary dif­fi­cul­ties, dis­or­ders of the gen­i­tal organs, weak­ness of the brain, loss of mem­ory, epilepsy, insan­ity, apoplexy — and extreme fee­ble­ness and early death of off­spring.… (Quoted in Kimmel)

Gra­ham rec­om­mended dietary mea­sures, specif­i­cally his crack­ers, to com­bat men’s temp­ta­tion to plea­sure. J. H. Kel­logg, whose flakes were also orig­i­nally devel­oped and mar­keted as an anaphro­disiac, didn’t stop with food. In Plain Facts for Old and Young, pub­lished in 1888, Kel­logg rec­om­mended a series of home reme­dies for mas­tur­ba­tion, includ­ing ban­dag­ing a boy’s penis, cov­er­ing it with a cage and tying the boy’s hands at night when he went to sleep. For par­tic­u­larly dif­fi­cult cases, Kel­logg rec­om­mended cir­cum­ci­sion “with­out admin­is­ter­ing an anaes­thetic, as the brief pain attend­ing the oper­a­tion will have a salu­tary effect upon the mind, espe­cially if con­nected with the idea of pun­ish­ment” (Quoted in Kim­mel). Nor was Kel­logg the only expert to sug­gest that pain was the best coun­ter­mea­sure to male mas­tur­ba­tion. Other writ­ers seemed to com­pete with each other to see who could come up with the cru­elest form of inter­ven­tion. Rec­om­men­da­tions included apply­ing leeches, punch­ing a hole in the fore­skin and insert­ing a metal ring, cut­ting the fore­skin with jagged-edge scis­sors and apply­ing a hot iron to a boy’s genitals.

Clearly male sex­ual plea­sure for its own sake was threat­en­ing to nine­teenth cen­tury US cul­ture. In Man­hood in Amer­ica, from which I have pulled the above quotes from Gra­ham and Kel­logg, Michael Kim­mel locates this threat in the cri­sis of mas­cu­line iden­tity caused by the rapid indus­tri­al­iza­tion of Amer­i­can society.

[T]o middle-class Amer­i­can men the mid-nineteenth cen­tury world often felt like it was spin­ning out of con­trol, rush­ing head­long towards an indus­trial future. For a young man seek­ing his for­tune in such a free and mobile soci­ety, iden­tity was no longer fixed, and there was no firm patri­ar­chal lin­eage to ground a secure sense of him­self as a man.… “Sons [here Kim­mel is quot­ing Charles Sell­ers’ book The Mar­ket Rev­o­lu­tion: Jack­son­ian Amer­ica, 1815 – 1846] had to com­pete for elu­sive man­hood in the mar­ket rather than grow into secure man­hood by repli­cat­ing fathers. Where many could never attain the self-made man­hood of suc­cess, mid­dle class mas­culin­ity pushed ego­tism to extremes of aggres­sion, cal­cu­la­tion, self-control and unremit­ting effort.”

Sex­ual plea­sure under­mined a man’s abil­ity to com­pete in this mar­ket­place of man­hood in two ways: First, as Gra­ham, Kel­logg and oth­ers made clear, such plea­sure con­sti­tuted unadul­ter­ated self-indulgence, a char­ac­ter­is­tic pre­cisely anti­thet­i­cal to the kind of man a self-made man was sup­posed to be. Sec­ond, the expen­di­ture of sperm — and the thinkers of the nine­teenth cen­tury saw ejac­u­la­tion quite explic­itly as a form of spend­ing — was a waste of energy that a man could have, and should have, been putting to more pro­duc­tive uses elsewhere.

This view of male sex­ual plea­sure as dan­ger­ous and patho­log­i­cal was for­mally med­ical­ized in 1870 when Dr. Lewis Sayre, the nation’s lead­ing ortho­pe­dic sur­geon, and a future pres­i­dent of the Amer­i­can Med­ical Asso­ci­a­tion, was called in to con­sult in the case of a boy who was “unable to walk with­out assis­tance or stand erect, his knees being flexed at about an angle of 45 degrees” (Gol­la­her). Sayre had been asked to per­form a teno­tomy, an oper­a­tion which would sever the child’s ham­string ten­dons, but, after exam­in­ing the boy, Sayre con­cluded that the patient’s legs were par­a­lyzed, not con­tracted, and so a dif­fer­ent form of treat­ment was called for. Because he could not imme­di­ately dis­cern the cause of the paral­y­sis, Sayre decided to test the boy’s reflexes using elec­tri­cal cur­rent as a way of help­ing him refine his diag­no­sis. When the boy’s nurse warned him not to apply the cur­rent too close to her ward’s gen­i­tals, which were very sore, Sayre dis­cov­ered that the child was suf­fer­ing from a severe case of phi­mo­sis, an overly tight fore­skin. When the nurse explained that the con­di­tion often caused the boy to have painful erec­tions, Sayre had a flash of insight:

As exces­sive ven­ery is a fruit­ful source of phys­i­cal pros­tra­tion and ner­vous exhaus­tion, some­times pro­duc­ing paral­y­sis, I was dis­posed to look upon this case in the same light, and rec­om­mended cir­cum­ci­sion as a means of reliev­ing the irri­tated and impris­oned penis. (Quoted in Gollaher)

The oper­a­tion was per­formed; the boy expe­ri­enced a nearly mirac­u­lous recov­ery; and the indus­try of male cir­cum­ci­sion in the United States was born. In the decades that fol­lowed, cir­cum­ci­sion was touted — at first by Sayre, but then, with the excep­tion of a few dis­senters, by the med­ical pro­fes­sion as a whole — as a cure for every­thing from asthma to epilepsy, but what is most remark­able about this pro­ce­dure is that even though every pro­posed med­ical jus­ti­fi­ca­tion for it turned out to be either pro­foundly ques­tion­able or com­pletely false, removal of the male fore­skin devel­oped nonethe­less into the pre­ven­tive med­i­cine it is still used as today in the rou­tine med­ical cir­cum­ci­sion of infant boys.

What it is pre­cisely that cir­cum­ci­sion is sup­posed to pre­vent has changed over time. In 1896, a book called All About Baby rec­om­mended the pro­ce­dure for baby boys to pre­vent mas­tur­ba­tion and the med­ical and moral prob­lems asso­ci­ated with that prac­tice. Other author­i­ties advo­cated cir­cum­ci­sion as a hedge against the pos­si­bil­ity of impo­tence later in life (Gol­la­her). More prop­erly med­ical ratio­nales have included the pre­ven­tion of uri­nary tract infec­tions, can­cer of the penis, can­cer of the cervix in women and the trans­mis­sion of sex­u­ally trans­mit­ted dis­eases, includ­ing HIV – this last one is, for now, sup­ported by solid sci­en­tific evi­dence, but no one that I am aware of seri­ously pro­motes the pro­ce­dure as rou­tine pre­ven­tive health care for all infant boys. Per­haps more to the point, while there are cer­tainly solid med­ical rea­sons for per­form­ing male cir­cum­ci­sions on adult men, few if any of those rea­sons apply to new­born boys, mean­ing that, as David L. Gol­la­her puts it in his book Cir­cum­ci­sion, “the ques­tions about cir­cum­ci­sion are about the future: Does it yield longer life, less dis­ease or dis­abil­ity? Does it improve func­tion? Does it alle­vi­ate fear or anxiety?And if it does con­fer ben­e­fit, does the ben­e­fit out­weigh the harm?” The prac­tice of cir­cum­cis­ing infant boys, in other words, is more about the kind of body the med­ical pro­fes­sion believes men ought to have than it is about a direct and imme­di­ate threat to the life or well-being of the boys who will grow up to be those men.

Indeed, the rou­tine cir­cum­ci­sion of infant males became enshrined in the United States less because there was per­sua­sive evi­dence of the procedure’s ben­e­fits than because pow­er­ful voices within the med­ical pro­fes­sion man­aged to con­vince their col­leagues and the pub­lic at large that the fore­skin itself was patho­log­i­cal. Chief among these voices in the late nine­teenth cen­tury was Peter Charles Remondino’s. A widely pub­lished and influ­en­tial physi­cian and pub­lic health offi­cial, Remondino pub­lished in 1891 a book called His­tory of Cir­cum­ci­sion from the Ear­li­est Times to the Present: Moral and Phys­i­cal Rea­sons for Its Per­for­mance. In it he wrote:

The pre­puce seems to exer­cise a malign influ­ence in the most dis­tant and appar­ently uncon­nected man­ner; where, like some of the evil genii or sprites in the Ara­bian tales, it can reach from afar the object of its malig­nity, strik­ing him down unawares in the most unac­count­able man­ner; mak­ing him a vic­tim to all man­ner of ills, suf­fer­ings, and tribu­la­tions; unfit­ting him for mar­riage or the cares of busi­ness, mak­ing him mis­er­able and an object of con­tin­ual scold­ing and pun­ish­ment in child­hood, through its wor­ri­ments and noc­tur­nal enure­sis [invol­un­tary uri­na­tion]; later on, begin­ning to affect him with all kinds of phys­i­cal dis­tor­tions and ail­ments, noc­tur­nal pol­lu­tions, and other con­di­tions cal­cu­lated to weaken him phys­i­cally, men­tally, and morally; to land him, per­chance, in jail or even in a lunatic asy­lum. Man’s whole life is sub­ject to the capri­cious dis­pen­sa­tions and whims of this Job’s-comforts-dispensing enemy of man. (Quoted in Gollaher)

Note the shift in focus. While peo­ple like Gra­ham and Kel­logg had seen cir­cum­ci­sion as a kind of pun­ish­ment for mas­tur­ba­tion, a view in which the mas­tur­ba­tor and not his fore­skin was the prob­lem, Remondino saw the fore­skin itself as patho­log­i­cal, as if the male body were born dis­eased; and while no one seri­ously believes any­more that the fore­skin is the root of all evil in men, it’s hard not to see Remondino’s rhetoric as one root of the idea that a healthy fore­skin, a nor­mal part of the body with which a boy is born, is not merely dis­pos­able, remov­able, like the flip top on a can, but also so poten­tially harm­ful that doc­tors are will­ing to per­form an oper­a­tion to save boys from its per­ceived dan­gers that would oth­er­wise seem to vio­late a cen­tral tenet of the med­ical pro­fes­sion: not to do surgery on an oth­er­wise healthy patient. Were the fore­skin under­stood as the organ of sex­ual sen­sa­tion that it is, how­ever – not unlike the cli­toris, in that, while it may not be nec­es­sary for sex­ual inter­course, it is cer­tainly more than sim­ply desir­able for the plea­sures it pro­vides – one won­ders if we would so eas­ily see its removal as no big deal and cel­e­brate instead the mar­ginal and doubt­ful health ben­e­fits that osten­si­bly result from its absence. (Please note: I am not sug­gest­ing that the fore­skin and the cli­toris have some kind of one-to-one cor­re­spon­dence, either sex­u­ally or phys­i­o­log­i­cally, just that there may be a sim­i­lar­ity in function.)

The fore­skin of an adult human male rep­re­sents 50% to 80% of the penile skin. (Details about the fore­skin in this and the fol­low­ing para­graphs are taken from “The Pre­puce,” by C. J. Cold and J. R. Tay­lor and “A Pre­lim­i­nary Poll of Men Cir­cum­cised in Infancy of Child­hood,” by Tim Ham­mond.) Unfolded, it would mea­sure between twenty and thirty square inches. The glans penis of an intact man is only a few cell lay­ers thick. The skin is smooth, red, and glis­ten­ing, just like the inside of the mouth. The glans of a cir­cum­cised penis, on the other hand, is up to ten times thicker than its uncir­cum­cised coun­ter­part, the result of a process called ker­a­tiniza­tion. Ker­atin, a tough, insol­u­ble pro­tein which the body pro­duces in response to fric­tion or pres­sure, is the pri­mary mate­r­ial in hair, nails, and the out­er­most layer of skin. Its for­ma­tion on the head of a cir­cum­cised penis, while nec­es­sary to com­pen­sate for the loss of the foreskin’s pro­tec­tive cov­er­ing — imag­ine what your tongue would feel like if you didn’t have cheeks or your eyes with­out eye­lids — sig­nif­i­cantly dulls what a man will be able to feel through the head of his penis. In addi­tion, cir­cum­ci­sion excises the tremen­dous sex­ual sen­si­tiv­ity that is located in the fore­skin itself, including:

  • The fre­nar band, a ridge of skin between the inner and outer fore­skin, which is the pri­mary eroge­nous zone on the intact male body
  • The frenu­lum, the highly sen­si­tive piece of skin that anchors the fore­skin to the under­side of the glans
  • Fine touch recep­tors called Meissner’s cor­pus­cles, of which there are thousands
  • Branches of the dor­sal nerve
  • 10,000 to 20,000 spe­cial­ized ero­to­genic nerve endings

All of this and more is lost to a man whose fore­skin has been ampu­tated, leav­ing him only with what­ever sen­sory capac­ity is left in his cir­cum­ci­sion scar — and for some the scar has no such capac­ity, while for oth­ers it becomes a site of pain — and with what he can feel through the nerves in the head of his penis, cov­ered as they are by the lay­ers of ker­atin men­tioned above. These nerves are mostly “pro­to­pathic,” mean­ing they can sense only sen­sa­tions that are poorly local­ized, like pres­sure, pain, cer­tain kinds of phys­i­cal con­tact and tem­per­a­ture, and so what one author has called “the sub­tle plea­sures of gen­i­tal fore­play” exist out­side the realm of expe­ri­ence to which a cir­cum­cised man has access. Indeed, the only part of the body with less pro­to­pathic sen­si­tiv­ity than the glans penis is the heel of the foot. This reduc­tion in sen­si­tiv­ity does not mean that cir­cum­cised men have no choice but to lead less sat­is­fy­ing sex lives than uncir­cum­cised men — sex­ual sat­is­fac­tion, after all, is a prod­uct of far more than phys­i­cal sen­sa­tion; and cir­cum­cised men are still capa­ble of orgasm and all other kinds of sex­ual sen­sa­tion and play — but it does mean that, what­ever else it rep­re­sents as a med­ical pro­ce­dure or cul­tural rit­ual, the rou­tine cir­cum­ci­sion of infant boys, the most com­mon form of surgery per­formed in the United States, is by def­i­n­i­tion an expres­sion of indif­fer­ence at best, if not down­right hos­til­ity, to male sex­ual plea­sure, root­ing the pro­ce­dure firmly in the nine­teenth cen­tury beliefs and atti­tudes of Sylvester Gra­ham and those who thought like him.

Draw­ing, or at least explor­ing the pos­si­bil­ity of, a con­nec­tion between the con­tem­po­rary med­ical prac­tice of rou­tine infant male cir­cum­ci­sion and the fears about male sex­ual plea­sure that con­cerned peo­ple in 19th cen­tury United States is not to sug­gest that we are some­how still mired in obso­lete ideas about mas­tur­ba­tion or some such thing. Rather it is to ask a ques­tion about the rela­tion­ships between and among the male body, our cul­tural definition(s) of and pre­scrip­tions for a healthy (specif­i­cally sex­u­ally healthy) male body and how those def­i­n­i­tions and pre­scrip­tions struc­ture what it means for a man to have sex­ual plea­sure. Take, for exam­ple, the terms west­ern med­i­cine uses to define the four stages of erec­tion: latent, tumes­cent, full erec­tion, and rigid erec­tion. The hier­ar­chi­cal pro­gres­sion from one stage to the next sug­gests that the process of male sex­ual arousal is pri­mar­ily the process of build­ing an erec­tion or, per­haps more accu­rately, of how an erec­tion builds itself; more, the hier­ar­chy embed­ded in those terms deval­ues the expe­ri­ence of ear­lier stages, latency for exam­ple, in com­par­i­son to later stages, like full or rigid erec­tion. Think­ing about male sex­ual arousal in these hier­ar­chi­cal terms also car­ries the impli­ca­tion that some­thing is wrong if one does not reach the final stage, rigid erec­tion, and such think­ing fits very neatly with the idea that the final and only true evi­dence and expe­ri­ence of fully real­ized male sex­ual plea­sure is ejac­u­la­tion, a value expressed most nakedly (so to speak) in pornography’s cum shot. Finally, since you don’t need a fore­skin to ejac­u­late, this hier­ar­chi­cal, goal-based model of male sex­ual plea­sure makes it very easy to see the fore­skin as expend­able, which in turn makes it easy to rea­son that the expend­abil­ity of the fore­skin is the nat­ural state of the male body, despite the fact that the male body in its nat­ural state pos­sesses a foreskin.

Yet latency, tumes­cence, full-erection and rigid-erection are not the only ways in which male sex­ual arousal can be described.The Taoists, for exam­ple, as Man­tak Chia and Dou­glas Arava explain in The Multi-Orgasmic Man, talked about four lev­els of “attain­ment:” firm­ness, swelling, hard­ness and heat, terms that are not only not inher­ently hier­ar­chi­cal, but that also, at least for me, describe the inte­rior expe­ri­ence of sex­ual arousal much more accu­rately. I know what firm­ness feels like, for exam­ple, while I can’t say the same for latency; and the qual­i­ta­tive dif­fer­ence between hard­ness and heat is much truer to what I feel than the quan­ti­ta­tive dif­fer­ence between a full and a rigid erec­tion. More­over, along with these dif­fer­ent terms of descrip­tion comes a very dif­fer­ent idea about the nature of male sex­ual plea­sure. Firm­ness, swelling, hard­ness and heat are sen­sa­tions that can be expe­ri­enced in their own right, and, as stages of male arousal, each one brings with it its own, very spe­cific plea­sures, if you are will­ing to take the time to pay atten­tion and cul­ti­vate them. Indeed, for the Taoists, the goal of male sex­ual plea­sure is not ejac­u­la­tion per se, but rather the cul­ti­va­tion and har­ness­ing of these plea­sures, and the recy­cling of sex­ual energy through­out the body, lead­ing to a series of whole-body, non-ejaculatory orgasms, an idea which seems at first – at least it did so to me – not merely coun­ter­in­tu­itive, but phys­i­o­log­i­cally impossible.

Yet male orgasm and ejac­u­la­tion are sep­a­ra­ble phe­nom­ena, as Alfred Kin­sey showed in the 1940s and as William Hart­mann and Mar­i­lyn Fithian con­firmed in their book, Any Man Can: The Mul­ti­ple Orgas­mic Tech­nique for Every Lov­ing Man. Hart­mann and Fithian reported on a study they con­ducted of thirty three men who claimed they could have two or more orgasms with­out los­ing an erec­tion. The men were mon­i­tored for pelvic con­trac­tions and increased heart rate — two clear indi­ca­tors of orgasm — and the results showed the aver­age num­ber of orgasms among the men was four. The max­i­mum was six­teen! More to the point, the arousal charts for these men were iden­ti­cal to those of multi-orgasmic women, sug­gest­ing that the tra­di­tional West­ern model of male arousal — which builds to the sin­gle peak of ejac­u­la­tion and then falls off into a stage when another erec­tion is impos­si­ble — has at least as much to do with how men are social­ized to expe­ri­ence sex­ual plea­sure as with the capac­ity or pre­dis­po­si­tion of our bod­ies for a given kind of sensation.

The tech­niques that make mul­ti­ple male orgasm pos­si­ble are based on an under­stand­ing of male sex­ual response that incor­po­rates into a sys­tem the erotic pos­si­bil­i­ties of male phys­i­ol­ogy that are usu­ally treated as “pleas­ant detours” along the road to the “main event” and not as either sig­nif­i­cant sources of plea­sure in their own right or nec­es­sary con­tribut­ing fac­tors to a man’s capac­ity for mul­ti­ple orgasm. Through these tech­niques, a man’s nip­ples, anus, per­ineum, tes­ti­cles, scro­tal sac, even his breath­ing all become in their own way as impor­tant as his penis in his abil­ity fully to expe­ri­ence his body’s capac­ity for orgasm. These meth­ods will work for both cir­cum­cised and uncir­cum­cised men, and so I am not try­ing to argue that we ought to stop cir­cum­cis­ing boys just so that they can expe­ri­ence mul­ti­ple orgasms when they become men (though I do think we ought to stop rou­tinely cir­cum­cis­ing infant boys); rather, I would like to sug­gest that a view of male plea­sure that does not focus so exclu­sively on ejac­u­la­tion, that val­ues all of the erotic pos­si­bil­i­ties of a man’s body, includ­ing those of the fore­skin, will make the  logic by which we now so blithely ampu­tate the fore­skins of healthy infant boys far less com­pelling than it now can be. Or, to put it another way, when you change someone’s def­i­n­i­tion, expe­ri­ence and expec­ta­tions of sex­ual plea­sure and sat­is­fac­tion, you change, or at least poten­tially change, the pol­i­tics of sex­u­al­ity as well, and when it comes to male sex­u­al­ity that is a pos­si­bil­ity worth explor­ing further.

Works Cited

Chia, Man­tak, and Arava, Dou­glas Abrams. The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sex­ual Secrets Every Man Should Know. San Fran­cisco: Harper­San­Fran­cisco, 1996.

Cold CJ, Tay­lor JR. “The pre­puce.” BJU (British Jour­nal of Urol­ogy) Int 1999;83 Suppl. 1:34 – 44.

Gol­la­her, David L. “From Rit­ual to Sci­ence: The Med­ical Trans­for­ma­tion of Cir­cum­ci­sion in Amer­ica,” Jour­nal of Social His­tory, vol. 28 no. 1 (Fall 1994): 5 – 36

Gol­la­her, D. Cir­cum­ci­sion: A His­tory of the World’s Most Con­tro­ver­sial Surgery. New York: Basic Books, 2001

Ham­mond, T. A Pre­lim­i­nary Poll of Men Cir­cum­cised in Infancy or Child­hoodBJU Inter­na­tional (83, Suppl. 1),  p. 85 – 92, Jan­u­ary, 1999 (British Jour­nal of Urology)

Kim­mel, Michael. Man­hood in Amer­ica: A Cul­tural His­tory. New York: The Free Press 1995


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§ 4 Responses to Fragments of Evolving Manhood: Do You Like Your Body 3 (Preliminary Notes On the Expendability of the Foreskin)"

  • George says:

    Those “HIV in Africa” stud­ies are flawed. They were only con­ducted in one area of the world so as to skew the results in their (WHO’s) favour. A lot of the men they paid to study were unem­ployed and poor, thus effect­ing the out­come fur­ther. The evi­dence relied on tes­ti­mony about the sex lives of the men, which could also be inac­cu­rate due to cul­tural stigma. Addi­tion­ally, a con­trol group, as in one on con­ti­nen­tal Europe where “cir­cum­ci­sion” is rarely per­formed, was never used. World Health Organ­i­sa­tion, with the help of that trai­tor Bill Gates, has now fab­ri­cated another excuse for the gen­i­tal cut­ting of baby boys in order to jus­tify their own scars.

  • Casey says:

    Hmm, those com­par­isons about not hav­ing a fore­skin being like not hav­ing eye­lids or cheeks was (for lack of a bet­ter phrase) eye-opening! I used to be like “ew, fore­skins are gross, I don’t want a penis to look like a can­noli”, but I’ll try to warm up to them now (or actively seek one out~?!). Also, I know now that if I ever have a kid and it’s a son, I’ll be declin­ing the de-rigeur infant circumcision.

    • Casey,

      “Hmm, those com­par­isons about not hav­ing a fore­skin being like not hav­ing eye­lids or cheeks was (for lack of a bet­ter phrase) eye-opening!”

      That was my response too, when I first heard it. I had never thought of it like that before. I’m glad my post was so thought pro­vok­ing for you.

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